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Are you job hugging harder than your ex? đ
When âstaying loyalâ turns into âstaying stuckâ â letâs talk about job hugging.
Hey there,
Be honest â are you hugging your job tighter than a clingy ex?
Because apparently, thatâs a thing now. Itâs called Job Hugging
Itâs when people stay in a job not because they love it, but because the thought of looking for a new one feels scarier than accidentally hitting âReply All.â đŹ

đ¤ AI Anxiety: The Plot Twist No One Asked For
And then thereâs AI, the guest at every career conversation.
According to Pew Research, 64% of folks think AI will lead to fewer jobs.
And EY says 65% are already anxious about it.
Basically, half your workforce is secretly Googling, âCan ChatGPT do my job?â and the other half is pretending theyâre totally fine.
Letâs be real â AI is like that mysterious new intern: charming, smart, and slightly terrifying.
But if handled right, itâs more like a sidekick (think Circuit to your Munna Bhai) than a threat.
đ Quiet Cracking: When Burnout Becomes a Lifestyle
If âquiet quittingâ was the 2022 anthem, âquiet crackingâ is the 2025 remix.
TalentLMS coined the term, and honestly, it fits â people are cracking under pressure, not because they donât care, but because they care too much.
Theyâre working harder, saying yes to everything, attending one too many âurgent syncs,â and then crying silently over Excel sheets.
đ Gallup says engagement is down to 21% â which means 79% of people are mentally on airplane mode.
Theyâre not lazy. Theyâre exhausted. But too scared to leave.
So, they stay. They âjob hug.â And slowly, they quiet crack.

đĄ So What Can HR Do (Apart from Manifesting Peace)?
1ď¸âŁ Acknowledge the Fear (Donât Gaslight It):
People arenât lazy. Theyâre scared. HRâs job is to make work feel less like Squid Game and more like Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara.
2ď¸âŁ Talk About AI Like Itâs Family:
Donât whisper about it like a secret affair.
Explain how AI fits in, train your people, and assure them itâs a helper â not a villain in a black hoodie.
3ď¸âŁ Train Before You Blame:
EY found 80% of people trust AI more when theyâre trained on it.
So yes, workshops > whisper networks.
4ď¸âŁ Build Safety Thatâs Psychological, Not Just Policy-ical:
People need to know they wonât get zapped for being human.
Let them mess up, question, experiment â youâll get innovation instead of hesitation.
5ď¸âŁ Shift From âRetentionâ to âRelevanceâ:
Instead of making people stay, make them want to grow.
If they see a future, they wonât cling â theyâll contribute.

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Before you log off, hereâs something to think about đ
Are you job hugging right now? |
Job hugging isnât loyalty â itâs survival mode.
True retention happens when leaders replace fear with trust, learning, and chai (never forget the chai!). Thatâs when people stay not because they have to, but because it feels right. â¤ď¸
Take a moment to soak in the festive vibes, recharge, and step into the post-Diwali week feeling inspired!
See you next Tuesday,
â Your HR BFFs at TSOW







